"Love and get hurt, get hurt and learn, learn and love again."
i encountered these words back when i was still in hight school. through the years, i've had my share of falling in and falling out of love experiences. they suck. they suck big time. you can't do the things you normally do without thinking about the person. your entire life suddenly revolves around one person as if he's the sun, the center of your universe, the reason for everything.
when we are in love, we risk it all. hoping that the other person will love us back. all people excahnge signals. signals that become the basis of one's actions and decisions. a simple gesture may send one drifting off to dreamland while an innocent text message may drive one nuts to the brink of suicide. you see, there are a lot of interpretations to these things. interpretatations that would change lives, affect people, make and break relationships, strengthen bonds or even ruin someone's life.
many people think that life after a heartbreak will never be the same. in a way, YES. they are right. After each heartbreak that we encounter, we come out of it as a new person who learned something from that failed relationship. one must see the light in every dark hour that passes by life. we learn things, appreciate people, lookback on the good times and learn to let go.
Moving on is easy, letting go is the hardest thing to do. it's not easy to let it all go, to forget all those memories, to change the activities you usually do. you have to learn to accept the way things are. bitterness will always be there. it is normal. there will be a point wherein you'll learn how to accept it all. erase all the bitterness inside and just be happy for both of you. all of us deserves a second chance. it's up to us to make the most out of every relationship that we have.
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